The Introvert Ledger

Hello Introverts, Book Lovers and Writers...and indeed anyone who resonates with the following: shy, socially anxious, sensitive, thoughtful, lonely, nervous...This is a new, curated space designed for introverts, by an introvert—a place where you can quietly and intentionally connect with people who understand you.All are welcome (18+ to submit an ad).There are three categories:The Quiet Salon
A section for introverts looking for friendships or more subtle, meaningful connections without the expectation of romance. This is for people who prefer deeper, more private interactions, friendships or wanting to set up book clubs. Great for those who are shy or just want quiet companionship—a safe, low-pressure zone. Inspired by the Parisian salons from the time of Hemingway.Once Upon a Match
A romantic section for people looking for love and dating. The name evokes fairytale romance in a quiet, introverted space, appealing to those seeking meaningful relationships and resonates with those who want something beyond casual dating—ideal for bookish people seeking a romantic connection without the rush. Arrange your own meet-cute! Inspired by the film 'The Shop Around The Corner' starring James Stewart.Silent Letters Society
A more poetic and thoughtful section for people who want to connect in letter-writing style or those interested in slow, meaningful conversations. A place for those who want to connect over shared creative endeavours (like writing, reading, or the arts) and who enjoy slow, written communication. Perfect for people who prefer intimate, creative expression, those looking for pen pals or writing groups. Maybe the art of hand writing letters will take off!How It WorksA modern twist on the classic personal ads:Step 1: Submit Your Personal Ad
Write a short ad via the form about yourself—who you are, what you love, and what kind of connection you’re seeking. Whether it's a book discussion partner, a fellow writer, or something more romantic, your words will help others find you. You can submit a Regular Ad where you provide your contact details or a Premium Ad where I forward responses to you.Step 2: Browse & Respond
Each monthly edition will feature a collection of personal ads. If you see one that resonates, you can reply directly via the contact info provided. Craft a thoughtful and interesting initial communication to elicit a response.Step 3: Let Connections Happen Naturally
No algorithms, no swiping—just thoughtful, old-fashioned classifieds. Take your time, send a message, and see where it leads.Each month I will produce a 'newspaper' in PDF format and upload it to the site. You can view online or print it out and peruse the listings.

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Terms & ConditionsWelcome to The Introvert Ledger! By using this website and submitting or responding to personal ads, you agree to the following terms:The Introvert Ledger website platform is a personals posting service for Introverts. We do not verify users or facilitate direct communication. By submitting or responding to an ad, you agree that you are solely responsible for your interactions and will exercise caution. We are not liable for any outcomes resulting from connections made through this platform.Privacy PolicyWe collect only the information necessary to publish your personal ad. Your data is not shared or sold. If you wish to remove your ad, contact us at [email protected]. Ads remain live for one calendar month unless otherwise requested.1. What Information We Collect
When submitting a personal ad, we collect:
Name (or pseudonym), Email address (for admin use only), Personal ad text
If you sign up for our newsletter, we collect your email address.2. How We Use Your Information
Personal ads are published publicly, but your email is never displayed unless you provide it in the contact details section of the submitted form.
We do not sell, share, or distribute user data.
We may use your email to contact you about your ad or send newsletters (if opted in).3. How Long We Keep Your Data
Ads remain visible for one calendar month unless requested for removal.
Email addresses from submissions are deleted after 90 days unless subscribed to our newsletter.4. How to Remove Your Data
To remove your ad or request data deletion please use the Contact Form.5. Security Measures
We use secure payment processing (Stripe/PayPal) to handle transactions.
We do not store payment details on our site.Submissions GuidelinesYou must be 18+ to submit or respond to ads. The Introvert Ledger is a cosy, literary-minded personals space. Ads should be respectful, appropriate, and focused on meaningful connections. We do not allow offensive content, explicit language, or solicitations. All ads are manually reviewed before publishing. If an ad is deemed unsuitable, you will be refunded and you will not be allowed to submit again.User Safety GuidelinesUse throwaway email addresses or the premium gatekeeping service when submitting an ad.Payment Security & Refund PolicyAd submissions are final once published. If an ad is declined, a refund will be issued. Users may request minor edits within 24 hours of posting.Limited Liability for In-Person Meet upsWe encourage safe interactions. If meeting someone from The Introvert Ledger, choose a public place, inform a friend, and trust your instincts. We do not verify users and assume no responsibility for interactions. We do not conduct background checks and assume no liability for user interactions.Community ReportingWhilst best efforts are made when manually reviewing each ad, if you suspect scam or spam activity, please let us know. We take safety seriously and reserve the right to remove ads that violate our guidelines.